It’s so true! I’ve heard it so many times, that if we truly know ourselves, then we know our boundaries. The problem is when we don’t know ourselves. We forget ourselves. We keep reaching out to the world trying to find our “self” but we don’t realize that the world isn’t calling us.
The problem is, just like most of the other tips we’ve shared, this one is a bit more complicated. We don’t know ourselves. We can’t know ourselves. We can’t know what we want. We can’t see that we have a choice. We don’t know what we even want.
I mean, I’ve said that I want to be healthy. I want to be skinny. I want to have a nice house and a nice job. I want to have a nice car. I want to be able to put down roots and be happy. I don’t want to go through life with the regret of not having gotten there yet.
There are a lot of good ways to get to where we want to be. For example, the first two bullet points say that you can get there by having a positive mindset and not making mistakes. One positive mindset is the kind of mindset where you look at the present and say, “I’m sure I can do this. I’m not getting too down about it. No matter what happens, I can do this.
This is a classic example of the “I can do this.” mindset that everyone is familiar with. This mindset tells us to just try and get everything done and then relax. In reality, we often don’t even know what we’re working on. We’re trying to be optimistic, but we’re not actually doing that even when we think we are.
Another mistake is where we make our goal too big. We want to do everything in our power to make a big change in the world. But we also are not always thinking about our small actions that are the most important. For example, maybe you want to do more about the local homeless person in the city you live in. But the second you take action, you might think, What will I do if I see that person again? But that is something you can do.
It’s important to note that the biggest change we are trying to effect comes from small actions. When we do something small, it has a huge impact on the world around us. As a result, we tend to make that change the bigger the better. We want to make a difference but not become a hero. By that I mean that we want to do something to raise awareness, but not act like a hero or heroic.
The first thing that we did was to get out of work. We did this by getting some things, like a new car, and we also did a lot of other small things. We got rid of our phone to keep it from getting stolen, we got a new TV, and we moved in with our friend Dave to help him make the move. All of these small things make a big difference because they have a huge impact on our lives.
For example, the first time we got rid of our phone there was a big phone fight in the store because we couldn’t tell how much it cost. It turned out we could get it for free from the phone company by using a coupon code we received for a free credit card. This is also a big thing. We can go without paying for stuff because we can go without paying for stuff. It’s like getting a new car.
With all that said, it shouldn’t be that hard to get rid of our phones. I have friends who are in their 20s and having a hard time understanding why they are still getting phones that cost as much as they do. It’s just really frustrating. It’s like they were born with that phone or something. But it’s not like they are getting it for free. You need to pay for it. But they don’t.